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Foster care will wreck you

I have seen this question populate on my own search bar as I attempted to search for information about a foster care topic for an article. I must admit, I was a little surprised by the popularity of the query! Is it true? Well, yes and no. Foster care will wreck you in the way…Read more

Loving Your Mess

If you are going to be honest, there are parts of your life and home that look like they need a FEMA sized clean-up. How do I know? Because I’ve seen my life and we’re probably not all that different. Life is messy – it is just a fact. In the last hour, I have…Read more

You Can’t Save Them All

“You can’t save them all” – How many times have you heard a friend or well-meaning soul try to remind you of your inability to save the world’s population of at-risk children? If you are anything like us, it has been a fairly regular statement. I usually reply with, “True, but I can help one.”…Read more

Your Kids Don’t Match

Foster care provides a variety of experiences for every host family. Sometimes you will have a biological sibling group and other times you will have a rainbow of races in your home. People’s responses to that diversity have encouraged, frustrated and amused us from the beginning of our journey. For the most part, we have…Read more

I could never let them go!

I hear that one a lot. People say it to me all the time right after they try to convince me that I am a saint and there is a special place in heaven for me and my family. It makes me laugh on the inside. I know they are trying to be kind, but…Read more